A meaningful day does not have to be a busy day. Sometimes, it begins with a familiar song, a favourite activity, or someone taking the time to listen.
For a person living with dementia, their life story, preferences, and relationships still matter. Conversations about care should recognise the person beyond their diagnosis and make room for their choices.
Start with what matters to the person
An interest in gardening, a love of music, or a favourite place can offer a starting point for time together. Rather than deciding what someone should enjoy, invite them to show or tell you what interests them.
Preferences can change. An activity that feels welcome one day may not appeal the next. Offering a choice, including the choice not to participate, respects the person's voice.
Connection without pressure
Spending time together does not need to become a test of memory. Looking at photographs, listening to music, or enjoying a cup of tea can be opportunities for companionship without expecting someone to remember names or events.
Allow time for responses, listen with patience, and avoid putting pressure on the person to get an answer “right”. The value is in being together, not completing a task.
Keep the person involved in care conversations
When exploring day care or home care, include the person receiving support wherever possible. Discuss their preferred routines, how they like to communicate, and what helps them feel comfortable.
Families and other trusted people may offer useful insight, but the person's own wishes deserve space in the conversation.
Explore support with InnovCare
InnovCare provides adult day care, home care, and supported and independent living services. If you are exploring support for someone living with dementia, speak with us about their interests, preferences, and individual needs so we can discuss whether our services are a suitable fit.
Every person has a story. Meaningful care begins by making room for it.
This article offers general information, not medical advice. Speak with a qualified healthcare professional about symptoms, treatment, or changes in health.
